This post is for Shanna who asked...
"Basically, how do you find the time to do it all? Your kids are always clean and coordinated and always off on some kind of adventure. Plus have the time to blog about it."
I wish you could have seen our house the day I got this comment! No way do I find time to do it all!
People give me WAY too much credit. Honestly, there are plenty of days when the kids stay in their jammies all day long(and so do I!!!). Keeping our house picked up??? That's a joke. I read somewhere that picking up after triplets is like blowing up a balloon with a hole in it and I'd have to agree! I try and pick up either right before naps or after the kids go down for bed, somedays its overwhelming (and pointless) though!
This is a picture of our playroom yesterday...the kids unpacked the suitcases for me while I was nursing London.
And here's Mickey Mouse...see him wedged up there between the wall and the tv? He was thrown into the fan and took a few spins around the room before finally landing here!
I have thank you notes from almost a year ago that I need to get written, we have birthday (even Christmas presents) that we still haven't gotten/sent. Birth announcements for London...we'll get those out someday! Our laundry is almost always behind and I can't remember the last time we made a "real" dinner (lately its been whatever we can throw together last minute).
Most days are kind of hectic around here...I just don't always blog about it, a little because its not what I want to remember down the road but mostly because we're having too much fun to let the negative slow us down! There's chaos, like last Thursday while we were packing to leave town and the triplets got into my brand new bottle of liquid makeup and spread it all over the kitchen and themselves. And then later that afternoon, took a bottle of nail polish and painted their own toenails all while drizzling nail polish over a pile of clothes I had laid out to sell on ebay (did I mention they were wearing ALL WHITE!!!).
And lots of times when I post about an outing, I leave some of the trying moments out. Like in our post last summer about our first trip to the library...I left out how the trio pulled the fire alarm while in the elevator. And in my post about our most recent trip to SeaWorld, I skipped over the fact that I had decided the trio didn't need naps which was fine until about 8pm when we were standing in line for a ride and the ride malfunctioned and shut down...after we had waited for over an hour! There were tears...lots of tears (mostly from Aunt Pammie!!! j/k), but at the end of the day, the good most definitely outweighed the bad and the positive moments were the ones I chose to dwell on.
Bottom line is, we have REALLY good kids who are well behaved and so much fun to be around...99% of the time! They're happy and we're happy! The fact that not that long ago, our arms were empty and we faced a possibility that we may never have children of our own combined with memories of them in the NICU, when we weren't sure they'd make it, always sit in the back of my mind and can quickly remind me how lucky we are and that I'd gladly take a dose of chaos and challenge over a quiet day without them.
Oh, and blogging...that usually gets done LATE at night when everyone is asleep...sometimes at 2 or 3am (when I should probably be sleeping or at least doing laundry or writing some of those overdue thank you notes!)
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
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You just gave me the chills. You are so right. Instead of focusing on the negative, we should always focus on being happy that we, and our families, woke up on another beautiful day of this thing we call life. I am thankful every day for my little family. Even though we have trying and stressful times, I would never trade our life for anything else. I am also thankful that we have such great friends in our lives, like you guys, who inspire us to be better people and parents. That's it. We are coming over for hugs soon! =)
ReplyDeleteYou just made me laugh:) I agree about focusing on the positive it makes all the bad seem to go away:) Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI have been following your blog for quite some time now, and I hardly ever comment (sorry). This post just couldn't go uncommented though. It's truly beautiful. Your children are so blessed to have you as a mommy. I find a lot of inspiration in this post, so thank you SO much for sharing with all of us.
ReplyDeleteOur children grow way too quickly, so I appreciate the reminder that it's more important to focus on the positives rather than the negatives.
God bless you and your beautiful family!
Stephanie... Yep, our children grow up WAY to fast....Seems like Amy and Andrew were "tots" just yesterday. Hey, maybe you could try to keep your wonderfully well written thoughts and blogs "somehow" organized and roll them into that book that's "inside you" about all your experiences with mutiples... You do write and photo essay VERY well. I know I enjoy it.
ReplyDeleteBest thoughts!
Stephanie,
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for taking the time to answer my question. I am thrilled to see that you focus on the positive and that life with trio (and baby London) is always an adventure. I think that is why I am addicted to your blog. I hate to say this, but your post made me feel so much better because I am not the only one with piles of laundary, and dinner consisting of whatever is in the pantry that doesn't require more than two pots to cook. I only have one baby ( a 3 1/2 month old named Payton) and sometimes I feel like there are not enough hours in the day to do half the stuff I need to do and still spend time with Payton. I have learned (and you have reaffirmed) that our babies are only babies for so long and the other stuff, like laundary, clean floors and a clean playroom, can wait because life is too short to focus on the negative (or housework, which I consider a negative even before I had Payton).
You are a wonderful Mommy and blogger, and your children are truly blessed to have you.
Thanks again........
Great Post Steph...I'm glad you wrote it because i just have the twins and two big girls and feel overwhelmed a lot. I often wonder how you venture out. I get anxiety just of thought of getting four girls plus myself ready yet i see all the fun you have with your trio. You are an amazing mama and I totally agree with you focus on the positive because the little stuff is just that in the big picture. I luv reading about your family. The love shows through your words!
ReplyDeleteGlad to know your house looks like that at times, even though I have never seen it that way!
ReplyDeleteI don't know about you, but sometimes I find it easier to get the kids out of the house then to stay at home. It's hard work getting everyone ready, snacks packed, bottles made, strollers loaded, etc. but staying at home is sometimes harder. My kids are better behaved when they're busy and they're making a mess some where else...a place I don't have to clean up!!
Just for the record... Aunt Pammie never cried at Sea World. I had a lot of fun with you guys over Spring Break, and it's funny now to look back on how hectic that day really was! I love any day with you all, even the crazier ones!!
ReplyDeleteI have to agree with a previous post.....I love the way you put the blog together! It is such a great tribute to your children and will be amazing for them to look back at all those memories.....
ReplyDeleteBest blog ever!! You are still one of the most awesome moms that I know with four kids under three who actually manage to get out of the house every once in a while and have fun no matter what happens. Keep up the great work!!!
ReplyDeleteWow! And I thought you weren't human!!! So glad to hear that you are just like the rest of us. :) I LOVED that post!! Hope you guys are all doing well and hope we can see you again soon!
ReplyDeleteI love your outlook on things! Your kiddos are so lucky to have you and the positive outlook you bring to their lives! I agree with Lindsay though - glad to see you are human too!!
ReplyDeleteI loved this post. You make even the trying times seem fun...the library fire alarm...I can just imagine. I know you are a wonderful mom, it shows in the smiles of your children. I talk about them all the time in my NICU, and love them like I took care of them...maybe someday, sometime I can meet them. If not, they are on my mind and in my heart.
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